Does my executor need a copy of my will while I'm alive?

Not necessarily a copy, but they do need to know it exists and where the signed original is. Many people simply tell their executor the location and how to access it, rather than handing over the document itself.

Should I give my children a copy of my will?

It's optional. Some people share the contents for transparency; others just make sure their kids know the will exists and where to find it. Either way, telling them the location prevents a lost-will problem later.

Where is the safest place to keep a will?

There's no single best spot, only the one your executor can actually reach when needed. A fireproof home safe or an attorney's office both work well; a bank safe deposit box can be risky if your state seals it on death. Whatever you choose, tell your executor.

Who Should Have a Copy of Your Will?

After her father died, Mei spent a week hunting for his will. She found a photocopy in a kitchen drawer, while the signed original sat in a safe deposit box the bank wouldn't open without a court order. The will itself was fine. Nobody could reach it. Knowing who should have a copy, and who should know where the original lives, is what prevents this. (Mei is illustrative, but a lost or unreachable will is one of the most common problems families run into.)

Who Should Have a Copy of Your Will?

Who needs to know about your will?

Should you give people a copy?

Where should you keep the original?

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